Good Advice

This does not just apply to MOTHER'S.. It also applies to FATHER'S.

People who are in the relationship & have been through the ups and downs may not see the BIGGER aspect of how they affect their children. Holding a child over a parents head is not only cruel to the other parent, but the one who hurts the most IS THE CHILD. Kids deserve BOTH their parents. Not a "stand in" because that's who they're currently dating.

People have a lot of shit to talk about "my kids" and "their dad's" but the truth is, until you're woman enough to share your child with their father - down the street or across the country - you have no room to talk about or try to criticize ANYONE else, mother or father.

Can't be a "deadbeat" if you choose to disappear & disregard the other parent. That's a choice you made.