life.

this is how i spent the day with my kids today.. braydon is flying in wednesday afternoon. brendan is home already. trae.. well, he’s out there & i wish him nothing but good things. he knows i love him & im not going anywhere. life is like that sometimes. SOME things are out of your control. life it’s hard. people who you love make it harder. 

what you don’t do is tell people how much they deserve the things happening, out of their control. why? because you have no idea what their life is like unless YOU are THEM. life is all about empathy and choices. you choose how you feel, and you choose how to react or respond. and you choose how you can make others feel. 

you don’t go out of your way to tell a mother she doesn’t deserve her children. you don’t watch her raise a child better than you could raise your own, and criticize her at every turn. you don’t use her kids against her because she is a mother, and what greater pain than losing a child? some things are out of our control. like the actions of other people. 

*a little note. my son was taken from me, by his father & hidden. he was with his dad because i CARED about my child & i WANT him to know ALL his family. i TRUSTED the wrong person.

NOBODY came in my home and deemed me unfit and removed my kids from my care. nobody. public and private, i am a great mom. period. 

you don’t get to have big birthdays but be a pos parent until christmas comes and you can post pix of all the stuff u paid for..(marrying someone for financial support is no different than selling ass on the street for cash.. ijs) 

just saying.. this is your karma you’re living through, rn. 

… i hope everyday without seeing your kids and hearing their voices IS hell. you had no problem wishing that upon me. 

bless your heart. make something of yourself for christ sake. stfu bitching and blaming other people. go get a job. save. get a home. do what parents do. SACRIFICE.. be blessed.